Qualities of A Good Husband – Apostle Joshua Selman
There are certain things, sisters I love you and am speaking to you from the depth of my heart. If you listen to me you will be safe. If you are stubborn and you do not listen, I guarantee you, you would have defined a part that will lead you to tears Sisters here doesn’t mean ladies who have not yet married, just anybody.
1. God Fearing
you have no business talking about relationships and marriage with any man who is no God-fearing. don’t be too fast allow me to define what I mean by God-fearing. Notice I didn’t say born again. Because that thing has been abused in the 21 century. A born-again brother is not one who came out for alter call and you witness him raising his hand.
God fearing, the primary reason why society is in decadence, listen to me is because the men are not God fearing. The fear of the Lord is not believing in God they are two different things… I can have faith in God and not fear God. They are many faith-filled Christians who are not God-fearing. Look at this, am a Christian am a child of God. My life is governed by a reference. Listen the bible is my reference. My decision is made with respect to this reference. So when you tell me you are a husband what reference are you leading your life and your family
What does it mean to be God-fearing, to be God-fearing number one means to have a reference and respect for God. Not just to believe in God but to have a reference for Him. Number two to be God-fearing means to submit to the way of God. Summit to the word of God as the final authority in all matters. So you do not mix the word of God and culture. Sister the first thing you must look out in a man is not the car he brought…
2. Submit to Earthly Authorities
In this order, it has to be in this order. The second thing is that man must submit to an earthly authority. He must be able to submit to an earthly authority. For mentorship, for building, for correction. They are many families in trouble today because they are no authority figure over the life of the husband. They is no man that can call him and say no no what you are doing is wrong. He can beat the wife and almost kill her. He is a god of himself. Never marry a man who does not have a pastor, a mentor, spiritual authority, or an elderly person.
There must be a personality that he has covenanted to listen to the person. They are many ladies you are in a relationship and you say I think you should see apostles. And say see apostle for what… That is how after he slaps you and you say let go and see the apostle and he says for what. Listen no matter how wrong a man and a woman are. If there is someone for them to listen to them you are still safe.
3. Have Passion for You
If you are married and your husband doesn’t have this, begin to labor in the place of prayer. Lord turn the heart of this man, he must be God-fearing. I have married the did has been done but Lord. But Lord you can still step in. You are the God of the second chance….
Number three, sister you are praying or considering a man to marry or you are married. That man must have passion for you, not love. Passion is an adjective that qualifies the extent of love. I love you is not a language that is useful again in this generation because it has been abused.
4. He Needs to Be Responsible
Then the last key ladies never marry a man who is irresponsible. There must be a demonstration of responsibility. Many brothers are irresponsible. Christian brothers are inclusively and irresponsible. Tongue-talking brothers.
What does it mean to be responsible? To be responsible means to be aware of the cost dimension of life. I don’t mean money but anything to be done must be done by someone. The Bible says every house is built by someone but god is the builder of all. an irresponsible person say they have not done it. a responsible say’s can we do it.